Emotional resilience: Love, I finally understand... I love you Frank...

Love

Love is powerful healing force, but you have to love yourself to love in return.

Being loved does not make you believe in our lovability. Self-acceptance and peace of mind are your business alone.

Fxm: yes, I have been loving myself which I take time out to do the things that I love and I have realized that I really don’t need another. And love is just temporary, I am always looking for myself and developing myself but it’s my search for my true love which is me… Yes, I understand this..

Self-love is the only true antidote to loneliness.

While another person’s love can reassure you, only you can find contentment with yourself.

Finding your beloved may consume, divert, and amuse you, but it will not placate a heart that longs for itself. While love may have great appeal, it is a brief balm for a person who sense he has no purpose..

Finding another does not mean you can abandon the search for yourself.

It is typical when you fall in love that you pull away from your friend an work and surrender to the forces of discovery and confession in which you now find yourself enveloped. You plumb the depths of your mutual understanding and marvel at the similarities you share. When you recess from reality is over and you begin to return to your usual life, you must find yourself again in order to keep your love alive.

If you sacrifice a part of yourself to keep a relationship alive, you will eventually leave the relationship to regain the part you gave up.

If, you haven’t found yourself, you end up needing the other to much. Then the other person’s love becomes your reason for living, and you love a dangerous and destabilizing attachment.

The relationship can become an addiction. Thenyo believe you need the other person to be with you all the time. You suffer without her, The relationship eventually is burdened by unrealistic expectations and bitter accusations. If the other person has to be everything to you in order to make you feel complete, she soon loses herself and has to leave to be herself again..

You can live your live without the love of another person, but you cannot survive joyously unless you love yourself. The lonely place within you is not filled by receiving love, but by giving..

Fxm: This finally makes sense, I have to love myself and find my own path.. It has always been like this which I have grown and I now understand a whole lot. Yes, I have to always love myself.. I thought when I meet lily again, I had purpose then reality set in, which I started to say, what the hell am I doing.. so, the issue is that I have found love which is me…. I am it and I always have been it….I have to remember this which I have to let lily live her life also. I will not try to get into it and I had avoided her which I have shown her that I am still finding myself and getting better every day.. yes, I have found the love of my life… it has been Frank Martinez… It is me…

I love you Frank Martinez…