Risking Dr.V Taking the wrong risk...

When A person tries to control feelings by controlling things, his judgement becomes clouded by his incomplete understanding of his emotions..

such people dread losing power more than anything else. this is undestandable to because they seek to control the outside world rather than looking at themselves and dealing with the feelings within...
Unfortunatley, unless these people can learn to deal with feelings directly, the world they experience will always seem on the verge of going out of control. Some fears, some pain, some anger must be felt if one is to grow and to be free...